When my kids came to me yesterday afternoon, after a long day of being at home with nothing much to do and the bickering and general unrest that comes along with the last week of summer, and asked to set up a lemonade stand in the front yard, my initial reaction was NO STINKIN’ WAY.

But then I quickly reconsidered and decided it could be a good way to occupy them while I finished up my work.  Besides, after nagging them all morning to find something constructive to do, how could I argue with this entrepreneurial endeavor?

And truth be told, somewhere in the back of my mind were visions of my blog adorned with quaint photos of my kids holding up handmade signs and happily selling lemonade to the neighbors as they fulfill this rite of childhood passage.

Yeah.

Pollyanna called and she wants her rose-colored glasses back.  (That’s for you, June.)

It all started out well enough.  We had a bottle of ReaLemon in the fridge, and the kids discovered long ago that if you add water and a few pounds of sugar, it tastes a lot like lemonade.  (There’s nothing like making your own fruit juice to make you realize how much sugar is in those innocent looking juice boxes.  Yes, I had to go there.)

Of course, upon further investigation, I realized we were out of sugar, and we didn’t have any disposable cups, so I agreed to run out to CVS to get some.

So much for finishing my work.

After our CVS run, we began making our lemonade.  Of course, they wanted to make it themselves.

Cue bickering (them) and nagging (me).

After the lemonade was made, and remnants of sugar and sticky lemon juice covered every inch of my kitchen counters, my son filled a pitcher with ice, and I poured the lemonade over it.  Then I pointed out that at 3:00 in the afternoon, there would be very little traffic coming through the neighborhood, so I convinced them to wait until 5:00 to set up their stand, when people would be coming home from work.

And that’s where things really fell apart.

Not wanting the lemonade to get watered down, I went to strain out the ice, and as I got almost to the end, the lid slipped out, and lemonade and ice went EVERYWHERE.

And mommy lost it.

After my initial outburst of frustration, I managed to get a hold of myself before I totally ruined their project, and I channeled my irritation into some sort of crazy song about lemonade on the floor that ended with us giggling uncontrollably.

It was one of those moments that could have taken a major turn for the worse, and many days it would have, but somehow I managed to salvage it at the last minute and turn lemons into lemonade. (Sorry, I couldn’t resist.) But it begs the question, why can’t I remember to do that more often? It’s just as easy to laugh as it is to yell, and it’s so much more pleasant. If I could leave my kids with anything in this life besides faith in God, it would be the ability to laugh in the face of frustration. I only wish I could model it more often.

I’d love to tell you that it was all rainbows and butterflies after that, but this is my life after all.

It was about 189 degrees in Philly yesterday, so when they finally set up the picnic table in our driveway with their homemade lemonade in our new red Coleman thermos and the matching red cups we’d picked up earlier in the day (the color coordination was not planned, trust me) they lasted all of about five minutes before they were complaining.

“This is hard.”

“It’s so hot.”

“I’m tired.”

Of course, when I ran out to snap those quaint happy photos I had envisioned, all I got was this.

And this.

And this.

In fact, I’m pretty sure more lemonade was consumed than was sold, which might explain the sugar high that ensued.

Finally people started driving by and ordering lemonade, and the mood changed.

The first people that drove by donated a dollar to the Lemonade Stand Fund.   (I told the kids to just ask for a donation, rather than setting a price and having to deal with making change.)  After that, they had a fairly steady stream of traffic.

And all’s well that ends well. I ended up with my happy pictures after all — a few of them, anyways.  The kids made about $3 each, the thermos was drained of its sugary goodness, and they finally stopped fighting and whining.

And the first day of school is one day closer.

Hallelujah.

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Interview: Kelly the Kitchen Kop

by Jo-Lynne on August 31, 2010

in whole foods

You may remember that I posted last week about an online course from Kelly the Kitchen Kop, Real Food for Rookies.  I asked her if she wouldn’t mind answering a few questions for us, and of course she obliged.

Last week I introduced the course, and i told you what an incredible influence and source of knowledge Kelly has been to me over the last year.  I’m so excited about this class, and I know Kelly has been burning the candle at both ends, so I really appreciate her taking time out of her busy schedule to answer a few questions for us.

1. Tell us where it all began.  How did you discover the benefits of going back to a more traditional diet?

In early 2004 when I was in my mid-30′s I started to pack on a few extra pounds.  I really wanted to jump on it before it got out of hand, so I decided to try the Southbeach Diet.  (I lost 11# in less than 2 weeks, and still think low-carb is the way to go for losing weight, but have since learned about some parts of the Southbeach diet that are really bad.)  In the middle of all that, a naturopath friend of mine suggested I check out the www.WestonAPrice.org site.  I got on there one morning before the kids woke up and what I read there brought on what I now call my “food conversion“.  Our whole lives were about to radically change!
2.  You sound like you were pretty much a mainstream mom before you discovered Weston A Price and had your “food conversion.”  What was the hardest thing about switching from industrially processed foods to real food?
The most difficult part of it all is one that continues to be a struggle at times:  our teenager!  Thankfully my husband is totally on board, our 3 younger kids don’t know any different, but our teen…HE remembers what he calls “the good old days”!  When he complains that there is “nothing here to eat”, though, I try to remember that all kids say that, even if their parents buy junk.  Still he eats much better than most teens, even if he complains now and then, and I know in my heart that his much improved diet since I’ve learned more about what I should be feeding my kids has made a difference that he may not appreciate for many years yet.  :)
3. Was this a hard transition for your family?  Can you tell me a little bit about how you got your husband and kids on the band wagon?
My husband grew up on a farm, so all the ways our eating has changed isn’t that foreign to him at all.  He eats better than I do.  (And rarely eats sweets!)  He’s also great about helping me in the kitchen and with clean-up, etc.  He’s always been super supportive of all this.  I told you about our teenager above. The younger 3 all started out pretty young eating Real Food, and while once in a while they’ll complain or not want to eat something, but for the most part they’re great about everything.  If they don’t like something I’m very careful to keep it low-key, and usually they come around on that food later.
4. When did you decide to start a blog about real food, and how did you come up with your clever title?

Oh gosh, that title was a pain to figure out.  I went back and forth for a couple weeks shooting ideas out to friends and family and went it came down to it, I talked to my friend, Lyn, and said, “But ‘Kelly the Kitchen Kop’ just sounds so dumb.”  She said, “Yeah, but what’s your alternative, some boring name that no one remembers?”  So that sealed it.  And it was the one that got the most votes.

I decided to start blogging a few years after my food conversion, after I’d researched everything like crazy and my friends were all asking me similar questions about what to eat.  When a friend, Sara, suggested the idea of a blog to me, I thought it would be nice to have everything all in one spot to refer people to.  Little did I know what I was getting into!

5. You have a way of making real food seem achievable for the average family, but many people feel that, due to time or money constraints, they just can’t do it all.  If you could recommend only three changes for a modern family that is used to the standard American diet, what would they be and why?

1.  Cook your own meals from scratch as much as you can.  This doesn’t have to take up your whole life (time-wise) or your whole budget.  There are lots of tips and tricks I can’t wait to teach in the class.  I’m proof these days especially that it can be done; lately I’ve been working so much on the class, all I have time for are quick dinners, but I’m still able to get Real Food on the table.  The main thing to remember is that it can be simple things, it doesn’t have to be a huge elaborate meal.  Since it’s summertime that helps too, so I rarely have to come up with side dishes, we just throw some veggies from the garden on the table.

2.  Find a source for pastured meats and dairy.  Their nutritional benefits are HUGE.  They are full of CLA (prevents cancer), omega 3′s (many health benefits, too many to name here), vitamin A, D & K2 (again, too many benefits to name), and more – these build up your immune system and fight illness.  That’s why they’re called, “superfoods”.

3.  Get you and your kids on Fermented Cod Liver Oil!  This is also a source for omega 3′s, vitamins A & D, and many other nutrients.  Also a “superfood”!

I’m really looking forward to your Real Food for Rookies class.  Thanks so much for taking the time to answer my questions!  :-)

You’re welcome, Jo-Lynne!

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Since our kids don’t start school till next week, I’m still doing last minute BTS shopping.  I thought it might be fun to put together a list of my favorite Back-to-School gear for kids and parents alike.

1. Best Back Packs: Lands End

As far as I’m concerned, these are the only backpacks to buy.  I’ve had others, but they just don’t hold up.  I can get two years out of a Lands End backpack, and my kids are HARD on backpacks.  They come in different sizes for kids of different ages, and they’re made like tanks.

Right now many are discounted up to 50% off, so if you haven’t gotten your kids’ backpacks yet, you’re in luck!  See, sometimes procrastination pays off.

2. Best Lunch Boxes for Little Kids: Crocodile Creek

These are stinkin’ adorable, especially for the preschool set.  They are made well and easy to clean, and they are PVC, phthalate, and lead FREE.

3. Best Lunchboxes for Big Kids: Lands End

For the older set, I go back to my old standby, Lands End.  They have several different designs and tons of cute color combinations.  This year each of my older kids got to pick out a new backpack and matching lunchbox from Lands End.  I found a coupon code online, and they were surprisingly affordable.

4. Best Water Bottles: Sigg

Each member of our family has one of these.  We take them with us when we’re going to be out and about for the day, and of course when we go hiking. The kids take them to school with water in them every day.  They come in different sizes, which is nice.  The kids have smaller ones, of course.

I particularly like that type of bottle cap.  It’s easy to screw on and off, it’s easy to drink from the small opening, they never leak, and there’s only one simple piece to keep track of.  (And they sell replacement tops if you lose them.)  The interior lining is leach-proof and BPA-free.

Crocodile Creek makes a cute one too, especially for the younger set.  I just don’t like those lids quite as much as the Sigg; I think they are more likely to leak.  Still, my youngest daughter has one of these.  The are free of lead, BPA, and phthalates; and quite affordable at about $8 on Amazon.

5. Best Footwear: OLLY Shoes

OLLY has the best selection of quality shoes for kids I have ever seen in one place — from KEEN to Merrell to Converse to Geox.  If you have one nearby, it’s definitely worth stopping in; but if not, their online store just opened for business.  Lucky you!

6. Best Labels: Mabel’s Labels

Remember when we were little, and our moms had to sew labels into our coats and stuff?  Well, Mabel’s Labels, besides being the cutest name ever, makes fantastic labels in every size shape and kind — new sewing required.

Their water-proof sticky labels are great for labeling water bottles, calculators, cameras, and anything else with a hard surface.  Bag tags are great for labeling backpacks and lunchboxes.  Shoe Labels go inside the shoes so there’s no confusion over whose are whose when the party’s over.  (Am I the only one who had to look that up to make sure I had the right whose?)

Not sure what to get?  They have this fabulous Back To School Combo Pack to make choosing simple.

7. Best Pencils: Newspaper Pencils

Okay, I haven’t actually used these pencils, so I can’t really say they’re the best.  But I love the concept.  These pencils are made from rolled up newspapers.  They promise that no toxic chemicals are used, and they provide jobs for people in developing countries.

Have you tried them?  What do you think?

8. For Fun: PakNaks

PakNaks are fun soft rubbery 3-D decorations for kids (and adults too!) to personalize all of their stuff.  I love PakNaks.  They are adorable, and a great way to jazz up that plain Lands End backpack.  PakNaks also make great party favors or a little extra something to slip into birthday gifts.  For 20% off, enter PAK20 at checkout.

9. Best Family Organizer: Cas Company FridgeFile

I discovered this through a post on organizing your Command Center at I’m An Organizing Junkie.  I ordered it a while back, and I can’t wait to put it to use when school starts next week.  I’m hoping it will help me keep track of all that paperwork that comes home with the kids throughout the school year.

UPDATE:  It is out of stock at Laura’s store, but you can find it on Amazon as well.

10. Best Desktop Organizer: momAgenda

Hey, moms need BTS gear too!  Check out this mom Agenda Home Office Edition.  It sounds the same as the Desktop version I’m used to, with their signature layout with space for mom and up to 4 kids; but the Home Office Edition also gives you monthly and weekly views with monthly tabs, note pages and 2 folders for loose papers.  The academic calendar runs from August 2010 through August 2011.

Or check out this Back To School Survival Kit that includes a momAgenda Desktop Day Planner, momAgenda Grocery List Pad, and momAgenda Sticky Notes.  Plus if you “like” their Facebook page, you can get free shipping and free momAgenda Pockets.

What would you add to my list?

For more fun Top Ten lists, be sure to click on over to OhAmanda’s Top Ten Tuesday carnival.

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Trust

by Jo-Lynne on August 30, 2010

in Faith

trust |trəst|

noun
1 firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something

verb [ trans. ]
1 believe in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of

We Christians talk a lot about trust.  And faith.  And hope.

In the car, my children often sing along to this song:

When I am afraid, I will trust in you
I will trust in you
I will trust in you

When I am afraid, I will trust in you
in God whose word I praise.

In church, we occasionally sing this song:

Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus,
Just to take Him at His word;
Just to rest upon His promise,
Just to know “Thus saith the Lord.”

We say we trust His promises, but what promises does He make to us, exactly?

Does He promise that everything will be just peachy as long as we trust Him?

Surely not, as any believer who has lost a child or suffered a debilitating illness or had a spouse walk away can attest.

No, we trust in this simple promise:

I’m so glad I learned to trust Him,
Precious Jesus, Savior, Friend;
And I know that He is with me,
Will be with me to the end.

Nothing more, nothing less.

And that is enough.

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Vacation Reading: Born to Run

by Jo-Lynne on August 30, 2010

in I Am A Runner,book reviews

If I’m going to finish up this summer vacation reading series, I better get crackin’.  I realize that summer is over for many of you, but we have one more glorious week left before the kids start school.  And the weather report is PERFECT… sunny and hot.  I’m in HEAVEN.

I didn’t technically read this book while on vacation, but I had to include it in this series because it’s one of the best books I’ve read in a long time.  Born to Run is about a reporter who set out to figure out the secrets of the Tarahumara Indians, an elusive tribe in deepest, darkest Mexico and some of the greatest distance runners in the world.

His premise: if our ancestors and many primitive tribes run miles upon miles upon miles without injury, why is the modern runner so afflicted by injury?

What he discovered may (or many not) surprise you.  We don’t need special equipment, fancy shoes, and physical therapists to do what our bodies were created to do naturally.  In fact, nothing has done more damage to the modern runner than the running shoe.

For me, it was just an extension of my food epiphany.  When man interferes with God’s design, everything falls apart.  (FYI, you won’t find mention of God in this book; it all comes back to nature and evolution for McDougall.)  But either way you want to look at it, it basically comes down to this — what the food industry has done to our diets, the retail industry has done to our bodies.  And we’ve fallen for it hook, line, and sinker.

It was after reading Born to Run that I bought my Vibrams and my knee problems “miraculously” disappeared.  I will never go back.

(Yes, I realize that Vibrams are just one more marketing ploy to get us to spend money on something we don’t actually need, but I tried running barefoot, and I got blisters.  So Vibrams, it is.  Incidentally, I hear that some just run in cheap water shoes, so that’s something else to consider.)

What makes this book fascinating, though, is the story. Even if you’re not a runner, and nothing I’ve said so far has interested you, you may want to tune in now.

This is one of those stories that jumps all over the place, and you have to work hard to follow, but I love how he takes us into his own personal narrative.  That is where he sucked me in because I could relate so well.  He was an unlikely runner — a large man, generally uncoordinated, but he had the running bug.  He was plagued with injury and told by the best doctors in the country to stop running.  But he doesn’t get it.  Aren’t we, well, born to run?

That’s when he set out to discover the secrets of primitive peoples.  Throughout the story, he takes us into Mexico’s deadly Copper Canyon to meet a mysterious gringo who lives among the Tarahumara, into Harvard’s science labs to understand the physiology of running, to extreme ultrarunning trails across America, and finally back to the Copper Canyon for the climactic showdown between an eccentric group of American ultrarunners and the elusive Tarahumara.  Believe me when I say, there is never a dull moment.

The best part is, by the end of the book, McDougall becomes an ultrarunner, himself – proving that there is no one particular body type that is cut out for running, and we all are, in fact, born to run.

This book is right up my alley because, as I’ve said before, I like nothing better than a true story, told in such a way that I get entirely lost in it.

As fascinating as the story is, what I love most of the book is that it gave me a new perspective about running.  Basically, if I’m not having fun, then something is wrong.  I’d probably benefit from rereading the book a couple times a year to keep that perspective.

You see, for the ultrarunner, running is pure joy.

In an interview for Amazon.com, McDougall says this:

But here’s the real key to the kingdom: you have to relax and enjoy the run. No one cares how fast you run 50 miles, so ultrarunners don’t really stress about times. They’re out to enjoy the run and finish strong, not shave a few inconsequential seconds off a personal best…as coach Eric told me, “If it feels like work, you’re working too hard.”

This has given me great freedom in my runs.  When I want to stop and walk, I do.  When I want to run slowly and evenly, I do.  When I feel like putting on some speed and taking a sprint, I do that.  I try to focus on my music and on the view around me and enjoy each moment.  Once it becomes drudgery, I remember the ultrarunners of McDougall’s book.  I try to harness their perspective and refocus my mind on the joy of the run.  It works every time.

As much as I tried to make this post a review of the book, it really keeps coming back to me.  I guess there’s really no other way for me to share about the book.  It is a great read, and I recommend it to anyone who likes a good story; but ultimately it made such a personal impact on me that I can’t not shout it from the rooftops.

Before I read Born to Run, I was beset by knee pain and thought I was going to have to give up on running.  Now I’m out several times a week, without pain, adding to my distance, and best of all, enjoying every minute of it.

Well, okay, ALMOST every minute.

Here’s a quick video of McDougall explaining why he wrote the book and sharing his personal triumph.  It’s fun to see him in person.  He’s not really what I was expecting.  I wish I could embed it, but it only gave me the permalink code.

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Meditation: Psalm 136

August 29, 2010
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Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good. His love endures forever. Give thanks to the God of gods. His love endures forever. Give thanks to the Lord of lords: His love endures forever. to him who alone does great wonders, His love endures forever. who by his understanding made the heavens, His love [...]

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Links and Shout Outs

August 28, 2010
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Ask the Teacher:  Back to School Gifting.  Great advice from a former teacher. Lesson 1: How to Laugh.  Love this. Is Your Favorite Ice Cream Made With Monsanto’s Artificial Hormones? Even if you think you don’t care, you really should read this. Who is feeling bossy today? Okay, one more. Have you heard about the [...]

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EGGS! Glorious Eggs!

August 27, 2010
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You would have to be living under a rock not to know about the HUGE egg recall going on right now.  Of course, not all eggs are tainted; just the ones that came from these two particular farms, which rumor has it, are among the worst of these types of operations. What’s funny, to me, [...]

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Fashion Friday: Back to School *GIVEAWAY*

August 27, 2010

For many of us — those of us who are moms, that is — our own fashion quests tend to take a backseat to our kids’ at this time of year, so I thought it might be fun to do a BTS Fashion Friday post this week.  Did you catch that?  Back to School even [...]

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