This realization was the turning point for me. I love food. For years I have wanted to eat healthier, but I didn’t want to give up taste.
When I was younger and my metabolism was more forgiving, I fell into a very bad cycle I jokingly call the “binge and starve” approach to weight management. I indulge in the foods I want to eat, and once the number on the scale becomes daunting, I diet to lose the unwanted pounds. Yeah. Real healthy. Not surprisingly, as I get older, that method is becoming less effective, and to top it off, my gastrointestinal system seems to be rebelling. I can’t enjoy food because when I eat what I love, I feel guilty, and when I eat what I think I’m supposed to eat, it doesn’t taste very good.
But since I’ve been reading In Defense of Food (this is a great synopsis, if you don’t feel like reading the whole book) and blogs such as Kelly the Kitchen Kop and Cheeseslave (who I’ve been stalking mercilessly for days), I have completely changed the way I think about food. Kelly describes this as a “food conversion.” I may have to borrow that phrase.
The funny thing is, my husband, the skeptic, is the one who checked the book out of the library. This is the man who brings Lucky Charms into the house and keeps ice cream in the freezer. But now he’s preaching about eating “real food” to anyone who will listen. Just ask his sister. She was held captive by his enthusiasm for at least 30 minutes at the wedding reception on Saturday.
I was immediately intrigued with the premise, but based on the subtitle — “Eat food. Not too much. Mostly plants.” — I feared that once again, I was going to be told that in order to be healthy, I would have to give up the things that I love most. Come to find out, nothing could be further from the truth.
For years, we’ve been told that we should eat low-fat foods. In fact, the low-fat food fad (try saying THAT 10 times fast!) has created a billion dollar industry out of making things that should be flavorful and nutrition-filled into inferior imitations of their natural counterparts. In fact, did you know that once upon a time, imitation foods had to be labeled as exactly that? Sometime in the middle of the 20th century, the rule was lifted, and suddenly the supermarket shelves were overflowing with all kinds of junk masquerading as health food — food such as margarine, Aunt Jemima’s pancake syrup, enriched bread, egg beaters — each one touting itself as better for us than the original natural version, as if humans ingenuity could possibly improve upon God’s creation. But we fell for it it — hook, line, and sinker.
The truth is, you can actually feel good about drinking whole milk and eating real butter and real maple syrup, just to name a few. Eggs are better for you than Egg Beaters. (Click that link to read how they’re made. GROSS. And hello, the yolks are the nutritious part!) Butter is better for you than margarine (um, partially hydrogenated oils, anyone?) Whole milk is better for you than skim. And don’t EVEN get me started on yogurt. Even before I started my “whole foods initiative,” I avoided any yogurt with cartoons on the packaging. Most are full of artificial sugars and flavors and colors. My mom used to make homemade yogurt when I was a little girl. Perhaps I should try that next!
Anyway, you get the point. Oh yeah, if you can afford to buy your meat and dairy from animals that have been fed grass (again, as they did before we humans began interfering with the natural order of things) then it’s better for you still. That’s my next mission. In fact, tomorrow morning I’m taking my kids to a local farm where they sell grass fed meat and eggs. I’ll try to remember my camera.
And here’s the clincher. REAL FOOD TASTES BETTER TOO.
Here are a few striking examples of things that I would have never considered healthy until now. Pie crust can actually be nutritious if you make it with healthy beef tallow instead of Crisco (partially hydrogenated vegetable oil.) Be still my heart. (I actually ordered beef tallow just this morning, and I can’t wait to try it out.)
Ice cream is typically full of all sorts of extra fillers, but not if you make your own at home. The other day we were driving by Dairy Queen, and my kids wanted an ice cream. Typically I would say yes, but this time we stopped at the market to get milk and heavy cream instead. When we got home we dusted off our old ice cream maker and made a batch. The kids were delighted because it was something fun to make, it was absolutely delicious, and I was satisfied that I was giving my kids wholesome real food.
Then there are the things that I thought were okay, but I realize now they’re not so good for us. Take boxed breakfast cereals. I don’t know about you, but they have always been a staple in our home because they are easy and the kids love them. I thought I was doing pretty well because I usually stick to the ones lower in sugar and artificial colors and flavors. But even those are not very nutritious. The vitamins they have are chemically added, which is no where near as beneficial as the real deal. (Are you sensing a pattern?) I informed my children that we will be having eggs or oatmeal (the old fashioned kind, cooked on the stove top) instead of boxed cereals for breakfast from now on. I couldn’t believe their excitement. Even the kids know real food tastes better.
I know, I sound like a wackadoo, but I promise, it isn’t as complicated as it sounds. We don’t have to get caught up in all the latest studies and stock our pantries with the nutrient du jour.
Basically, eating food as close to its natural state as possible is always going to be the best bet. It will taste better and it will be healthier. It’s really that simple.
The hardest part, I’m finding, is making the time to prepare more food from scratch and also finding resources for what I want to buy. I plan to write more in depth posts on that in the weeks to come.
Before we get to Mr. Linky, I want to stop and say that I hope that nothing I’m saying comes off like I think I’m better than anyone else. There is so much information out there, it’s positively overwhelming. We’re all busy and trying to do the best we can for our families. I just can’t help but share what I’m finding, and I hope that some will find it helpful or encouraging. If it’s not your thing, then please come back tomorrow. I’m sure I’ll be talking about something more interesting, like the latest trend in denim or how I survived an afternoon at the pool with three kids.
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Hey, I can’t believe I’m first!!! Lot’s of great info in there. Thanks!
If you liked In Defense of Food, you would probably like Animal, Vegetable, Miracle, as well. I really enjoyed both books. I, too, am on a mission to learn as much as I can about “natural” eating. Thankfully, there is a lot of helpful info out there. Many blogs with lots of great recipes.
By the way ~ where is the farm located? I would love to buy some grass fed meat and eggs.
Tara, that’s sitting on my desk! Got it at the library today.
The farm is called – get this, I love it – Why Not Farm. Isn’t that a stitch? It’s in Glenmoore, off Rte. 401.
You are SO right! I remember my mom’s college friend (who has a farm on the Eastern Shore of MD) telling me this stuff when I was a kid. Some of it sunk in. Like eating real butter (I do put margarine on pancakes, but bake and cook with the real stuff) and that eggs ARE good for you. Funny how the market turned again and now eggs are NOT evil like they were supposedly ten years ago…hence, “the incredible, edible, egg”. I can’t wait to hear more about your food conversion!!
So much of this makes a lot of sense to me. I grew up on a farm, so most of my mom’s cooking was done with “real food” and I’ve followed that trend, even when it wasn’t ‘cool.’ I’ve always used real butter–I haven’t bought margarine in YEARS. And real eggs too.
Unfortunately, because of my dad’s profession, I won’t be converted to the whole organic thing any time soon. But that’s another story for another day, right?
Great post!
So simple, but so true. Great reminder!
Ever since I stopped working (well, paid employment that is!!!) I have tried buy far less ocnvenience foods. I cook much more from scratch, make my own stock and chicken soup after roasting a chicken etc.
Definitely tastes better, and often cheaper too.
Have yet to try making my own bread, but when you see all the additives and preservatives listed, I really think I should give it a go.
My daughter is on a gluten free diet, so I make alot of things from scratch. I feel like Ma Ingalls. Wash on Monday, Iron on Tuesday, Clean on Wednesday, Bake on Thursday, Rest on Friday…LOL!
This is great “food for thought.” I’ve gotta get that book out of the library!
I’m really tempted to say that I wish I had enough time to cook from scratch and enough money to buy organic or real food. But even I know those are excuses. So instead, I’m going to listen and learn as you go through your food conversion – and see what I CAN add to my life, too!
LOL, Mary, I hear ya. For years I felt the same way. And there ARE things you can do that don’t take much time or money.
Start by reading labels and avoiding high fructose corn syrup and trans fats. Reduce consumption of foods with simple sugars and refined flour. Eat more eggs and fewer juices and sodas.
Those things don’t take time, just some self discipline. And they will SAVE you money!!
A couple things we’ve been doing for the past year or so – buying Pepperidge Farm Honey Whole Wheat bread (it has no high fructose corn syrup, which is hard to find in a soft bread.) If I’d known about Skippy Natural – no trans fats – I’d have been buying it. (My kids eat a lot of PB&J.)
Those are just a few tips that won’t break the bank.
I am just getting started in trying to feed our family a healthier diet (I hate that word, by the way). Thank you so much for the encouragement and helpful suggestions! Have fun at the farm!
I am going to have to check that book out from the library. I have been intrested in this topic for awhile but not had time to research it more.
I just finished this book myself and it had a great impact on me. I am really working to decrease the amount of meat in my diet. I honestly could be a vegetarian, but my hubby is a total carnivore. I try to stick to using little to no meat for breakfast and lunch and then enjoy meat with heavy veggies as a side for dinner. I am also working on those whole grains.
Great synopsis & I am going to check out those sites too! Thanks for the recommendation!
you are so lucky that your husband is on board with you…..I tried to do the organic fruits and veggies, grass-fed beef with no antibiotics thing and my husband kinda made fun of me……..he said that the whole civilization has survived thus far…but as you said, going back a few generations, we didn’t have the pesticides and antibiotics going into our food as we do now………so frustrating to be the “health nut” here…….
You’re making some awesome changes already. Keep it up; I’m so excited for you and your family. It’s also great that you have a voice through this blog to help others. As I’ve done the same research over the past year, I can’t help but wish someone told me this earlier.
The icecream example made me laugh, we just got an icecream machine this year, and when I made our first batch, my hubby didn’t want any (can you say PICKY eater?) – he said that’s not REAL icecream! ????? I said it’s milk, cream and sugar how much more REAL can you get? LOL
Good for you for trying to eat healthier, you’re right it does take more time and planning!
~TidyMom
I love all the info you give. You are such an informed consumer, and that impresses me! We have taken a good look at what we eat in the past few months, and have started adding back things that were lacking. I now spend a lot of time at the farmers market each week, picking out all our produce for the entire week. It is worth it.
Jo-Lynn,
I have wanted to read that book but have not gotten around to it. But I will say that I have been moving toward less and less processed / prepackaged foods for a long time now. Because of this, my kids don’t like canned vegetables or fruits; they’ll pretty much just eat fresh. I’ve gotten to where I hardly use crisco at all anymore in my baking and begin to question it when it is in a recipe I’m trying out.
Anyways, you’re not going to find me thinking you’re a wackadoo. I’ll admit that I’m not all the way there yet, but we are getting there.
I never read the book, but do you know what is funny? I wrote my What I Learned before I got here, and it’s about how I think processed foods are making my feet swell!
I love reading this stuff. But as you know, I’m still slow to implement it. The time factor is a huge one to me, but it is just selfishness that is keeping me from making time. Keep writing, because it is slowly sinking in and I will start making small changes soon.
Oh yeah, can you do a post about marinades, if you know much about making your own? I just noticed that one we really like has HFCS listed as the first ingredient–bummer! Flavor is so essential to me wanting to eat something, and I rely on things like marinades because I’m not a whiz in the kitchen. Help me!
I think there is so much to be said for this. I’ve tried for years to eat real food and avoid processed foods.
The biggest trick is, of course, time.
good post – love it!
Oh I have some ideas for marinades – We use a lot of oil and vinegars(red wine, rice, cider) and spice rubs for marinades. Citrus also helps break down meats and makes a good marinade. Oranges and limes are my favorite
Pineapple and orange juices are another option.
Have you ever read the book Eat This, Not That? I just got it and thumbed through it, it has a lot of helpful info when you’re shopping at the grocery store and how to see lies from truth in packaging of things on the shelf.
I’m so glad you are blogging about this topic. I think it is all very interesting. Also, fun to watch it unfold in your life. It is encouraging. You might have read about it already…but Kerrygold butter is a great real butter. I love it. You can totally taste the quality…fat. My husband says it makes the best pie crust. I get it at trader joes for half the price as you can get it at the health food store.
You go, girl! Like you I will read like crazy, following links, and then forget where I read certain things b/c I’m so into reading about it I don’t take the time to mark it for reference.
What did you sweeten your ice cream with?
I’ve always known that the natural state is the best (and I like homemade ice cream so.much.more). My problem is that having money for all the good stuff (and the time to cook it) just isn’t happening right now.
Cereal is my weakness! I could eat it every meal of the day and be happy as a clam. But then again, I really like granola, too, so maybe if I made it myself it wouldn’t be too bad.
I just stumbled here from Tidy Mom, so I have yet to look around, but I thought that her “what I learned this week” definitely takes the cake!! Abbie
This post is inspiring! I want to check out that book!
Kay, I used plain old white sugar. I’m not at the point yet where I’m ready to look at the healthier alternatives to sugar.
Wendy, homemade granola is awesome. My mom used to make it when I was little, and I made it early in our marriage. I stopped when my son developed nut and sesame allergies. I guess I need to find a recipe that doesn’t contain those, although I think that will be a tall order.
Hey Jo-Lynne,
First time commenter here! You can be happy in the knowledge that your milk post started off another “food conversion” on the other side of the world.
While you have been stalking Kelly the Kitchen Kop and Cheeseslave, I have been there too (though probably at opposite times, given I’m in Australia. I have beocme slightly (ahem) obessesed as well and have ordered Sally Fallon and Nina Plancks books on Amazon already. Am halfway though a podcast interview with Sally and just ate my first batch of kefir this morning with my bircher muesli!
We are a bit luckier here as we just don’t have the range of processed foods that you do in the US e.g. I have never heard of EggBeaters, we don’t have Coolwhip, so less processed “food” to try and cut out – there’s plenty of other stuff though!
Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for leading me in the right direction.
Cheers
Shann – need to make my first batch of Kombucha today
Funny how our taste and thoughts change over the year thanks for sharing so I know I am not alone I did not know where to post so I am leaving in comment
I posted mine here http://shopannies.blogspot.com/2009/07/what-i-learned-this-week-july-14.html
So wow, Jo-Lynne.
I’ve totally been grazing over your posts about healthy eating and such because I wasn’t all that interested, but dang girl! You’ve really got me intrigued now!
Some of the stuff I knew – like butter is better than margarine. In fact, as soon as my parents made this discovery years ago, margarine has never since crossed the threshold of our home. But whole milk being better than skim milk? Low fat not good for you? I never thought about this stuff. OF COURSE the original is better for you! If God called it GOOD who are we to argue? I really think you’ve got something here!
I am SO not seeing Mr. Linky on this page. Is it broken again??? Here’s my post:
http://spiffytiffy3.blogspot.com/2009/07/theory-of-men-er-boys.html
Jo-Lynne,
Are you familiar with the NYT’s bestselling book Skinny Bitch by Rory Freedman and Kim Barnouin? I haven’t read it myself, but I do know what they preach about milk. I thought you might find it interesting reading.
Also, I LOVE my EcoBag!
Have fun in Boston,
Becky
Hey Becky. I’m familiar with that philosophy on drinking milk, and it seems to make sense at face value, but I’ve read many other defenses of drinking cow’s (or goat) milk (whole and raw, preferably) that also resonate with me. I don’t see our family giving it up any time soon!
Glad you’re enjoying your EcoBag. I love mine too. Used mine just today!
Hi Lynne
I am also a busy mum of three, keeping a food blog, a husband, a house and 2 rabbits… But I read all I can find on nutrition so thanks for all the links in there that I need to research! It is a bit overwhelming as there is so much to learn in the area of health and food… For example, I want to know why manufacturers are not obliged to disclose the hydrogenated fat in their products – at least not here in the UK- when we all know it is SOO bad for your arteries and can never disappear once in… Any link on that? Is there not even a facebook campaign!!!?
I’ll research too and try and post smthing on travelsaroundmykitchen.blospot.com
Diane
It is frustrating, isn’t it? More and more companies seem to be getting rid of trans fats, though, as consumers are demanding it.