I’ve spent my entire adult life battling my addiction to food, and finally, at 37-and-a-half years of age, I have a taste of freedom. I don’t want to say I’m there yet, because I still backslide from time to time, but as soon as I overdo it, I feel so gross that I am instantly reminded of why I no longer live that way.
My slavery to food started, I believe, in college when I suddenly found myself putting on the pounds due to the impressive amounts of pizza and Coke I consumed. I tried to lose weight by cutting back, but I didn’t have much success so I sought out a popular diet plan that provided me with prepackaged food for almost every meal. It worked at first, but eventually I tired of the bland, processed foods and found myself cheating, which usually ended up in a junk food binge. One afternoon, for example, I ate an entire box of Girl Scout Cookies in about two hours. I cycled between dieting and binging and eventually lost 20 pounds, but it was a constant battle to keep it off. For years my mood was entirely dictated by the number on the scale every morning and night.
After I had my first child, I turned to counting points to lose the last 10 pounds and to try to keep my weight where I liked it. Counting points appealed to my obsessive nature and my need for a formula, but I still found myself practicing the binge-and-starve approach to managing my weight that had served me well for so long. Or so I thought.
Two more children later, an aging metabolism, and years of destructive eating habits finally began to take a toll on my weight management abilities as well as my health. Riddled with stomach ailments and extra pounds that I could not seem to budge, I discovered the real food movement last summer. And Dinneen. And that’s when everything changed.
I used to say that my problem is that I just love food, but Dinneen taught me that it’s much more than that. Plenty of people love food and are not slave to its wiles. With Dinneen’s help, I learned that it’s not my love of food that has kept me on a dieting roller coaster for the past 20 years, but it’s my emotional attachment to food and the bad habits I’ve developed since becoming a busy mom.
Turns out, the low-fat diets that I relied on to keep my weight in check were sabotaging my ability to make lifestyle changes that were effective and sustainable because they did not satisfy my cravings and ultimately left me feeling deprived and frustrated. Counting points caused me to think about food all. the. time. And while those neat packages of pre-packaged meals freed me from the food obsession, they left me feeling dissatisfied and deprived because they lacked the taste and the nutrients that we naturally desire. I always ended up “cheating” — a word that I now believe never should be applied to our diets.
Anyone can lose weight by counting points or cutting fat and calories, but only the most self disciplined can sustain it for the long haul because low-fat diets do not satisfy, nor do they properly nourish the body. I like a formula as much as the next guy, but it’s such a restrictive way to live, and besides that, it isn’t as fool-proof as we’ve been led to believe. This article by Tom Naughton is worth a read.
I always watched people eat intuitively — stopping when they were full, only eating if they were hungry, choosing an apple over a bag of Doritos because they honestly felt like it — and I thought that I could never have that. I thought I would always be slave to diet plans and my “love for food.” We all hear that healthy eating “can’t be a diet; it has to be a lifestyle,” but I thought I was incapable of making that lifestyle a reality. I figured that I would live the rest of my life on the diet roller coaster, and that I was doomed to a love-hate relationship with food.
But today I am here to tell you that I AM FREE. I have learned how to eat intuitively, how to choose my foods wisely, stop when I’m satisfied, and eat only when I am hungry. It’s not to say that I never over eat, but I never binge anymore. I eat food that I like, and I am satisfied because it is wholesome and full of good fats and nutrients that my body craves. I’ve learned to focus more on how I will feel when I’m done than how it will taste going down, and I’ve learned to eat a better balance of foods, which helps me maintain my weight easier. I’ve also learned how to interpret my cravings correctly. For example, when I crave something sweet, eating a cookie just leaves me feeling icky and wanting more, but eating an apple satisfies my sweet tooth and leaves me feeling satisfied and full without that nasty bloated feeling you get when you eat too much carbs and sugar.
I would still love to lose five pounds and keep it off, but as I hone in on 40, I am willing to accept the number I see on the scale and be satisfied with the fact that I am healthy and fit (or getting there) and enjoy my new-found healthy relationship with food.
If I can do it, you can do it too. TRUST ME. Don’t let the skinny fool ya. It wasn’t a healthy thin.
You may be thinking, Yeah, that all sounds great, but she had help.
Yes, I did. And that is the reason I am writing this post today. I couldn’t have done this alone. Even though it sounds simple, I needed someone to look at what I eat and listen to me talk about how I eat and how I think about food and give me advice and counsel to get to where I am today. I am so thankful I found Dinneen. Which brings me to the second reason I am telling you all this.
Next Tuesday, March 9th, Dinneen is holding a FREE call titled “5 Simple Secrets to Eating Intuitively: How to Create a Healthy Relationship with Food, Mind and Body and Make it Work for You.”
You can register right now by going here.
On this call she will be sharing how she’s been eating intuitively and what it has done for her and her physical and mental health. I am not getting ANY kickback for telling you about this. I am telling you this because I want EVERYONE to know the freedom that comes from making peace with food.
Besides being a Certified Health Coach, Dinneen has also struggled with and overcome food issues including overeating, binging, using food for comfort, not being relaxed around food, and thinking about food all of the time. When she lived in France, she learned how to eat intuitively, so she brings both professional training and her own personal experience into her coaching. In other words, she’s the real deal.
I love her, and I know you will too. That Eat Without Guilt button on my sidebar — that’s her. She’s not paying me for that ad space. I have it there because I believe in what she offers and I want to promote her business. Let me know if you take the call and if you find it helpful. Also, you can sign up for her free newsletters, which is how I found out about this call.